This week our assignment was to watch the TED talk
by Sherry Turkle. The questions we had to think about concerned how technology
today affects our relationships, have we noticed symptoms of this in our daily
lives or surroundings and is Sherry Turkle’s view on technology more utopian or
dystopian.
In her talk Sherry Turkle discusses the idea of
being alone together. By this she means the way people nowadays spend time with
friends, taking part in conferences and classes but at the same time we are
connected to the Internet via our mobile phones. Sherry Turkle presented one
picture of her daughter and her two friends. They were spending time together
probably at the Turkle family’s home, but all the three were browsing the
Internet via their mobile phones. Turkle mentions that we participate in
presentations, for example, but during those kinds of meetings we still use our
mobile phones and are not really present.
I have noticed many times, how the use of smart
phones takes time off of conversation. Sometimes I have been waiting for a
class to start with a friend. I would have wanted to talk with her, but because
she is browsing the Internet via her mobile phone, I feel that if I say
something, I will interrupt. It is more difficult to start a conversation if
the other person is focused on their mobile phone. One time I entered a classroom and greeted a friend, but she did not notice me
because her eyes were fixed on her smartphone. The situation made me feel a bit
annoyed and maybe also sad. I myself do not own a smartphone and that makes
these kinds of situations even more annoying
to me. If I am eating lunch with some friends and they all are browsing their
smartphones, I just have to focus on eating, because I do not have a gadget to
focus on instead of a conversation. Technology can be a great thing for human
kind but I think for example the use of smartphones has already gone too far. I
have heard some people complaining that no one is talking with each other in
parties but they all sit together while browsing their smartphones. This is not
how people should act in social events.
J.J.